Dating my ex best friends ex. Pleaseeee help need opinions😩😭

Camille

So I’m in a situation and I wanted to ask for opinions because I’m not sure what to do. So recently in April I moved in w my best friend because prior to that I was staying w my mom and we were having disagreements about money (which is a whole different story lol) but when I first moved in it was supposed to be me, my friend and her sister rooming together and to split the rent but her sister decided to go back to their hometown an hour away and my best friend wasn’t working at the time so I agreed to help pay her bills until she started working as long as she took me to work (I didn’t have a car), so during this time I was staying w her everything had been fine up until her and her boyfriend (now ex) were arguing because she thought that he was cheating on her, come to find out he wasn’t but before she knew that while they were arguing she blocked him and he told her he was texting her from a friends number but he was using a texting app. One weekend I left for a couple of days and when I came back she had told me that she went to her boyfriends jobs and ran into ythe guy that her boyfriend claims whose phone he was using and found out that her boyfriend was lying and she starts sleeping w his coworker. Eventually her and her boyfriend broke up once he found out and then soon after I ended up getting fired from my job because she didn’t take me to work and I was on my final warning so we got into a huge fight and it was horrible. I feel like I was being used by her as my friends because I would never turn on her and I turned to her ex the day after the fight and I was still pissed and I told him ‘Tell her when I see her I’m going to whoop her ass’ and he told me that he was still blocked and had no way of reaching her and that he believed that me and her would resolve our issues and it would be okay but from there me and him continued to talk and my feelings started to grow for him after about 3 weeks and by that time I had decided to move states for a fresh start but still talk all the time and I think I’m really starting to fall for him. I’m not doing this to get revenge on her at all because I want to forgive her and move past it but I know she would be hurt really bad if she knew about this. Am I wrong??? I need advice and I’m sorry for the super long post but it’s been on my mind for days and I just need opinions😩

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