Feeling pretty alone..

So we have a 13mnth old daughter together, our first and naturally our sex lives has been a bit on the back burner..as life is all about her. But it has gotten to the point where its really noticeable of the lack of sex we been doing.. Wed be lucky to do it 5x a month but usually go for weeks in between sessions, sometimes months 😯. When she was 10mnths i got my full libido finally back when af returned. He cud see that I wanted it alot more on the regular. But I feel like its so hard and I have to make such an effort to even get him in the mood. I dress up, naughty pics, surprises etc I know we are stuck in this rut and Im desperately trying to get us out of it. The daily grind of him go to wrk, him come home and has a few maybe most times a whole box of beers, showers eats then goes to sleep. He drinks more nights than we have sex and thats sad. Theres never any of energy left for me. I may not have all the energy in the world looking after a 1yr old but I reserve enough to want to be attentive to my husband. Just hardly any intimacy anymore, I dont feel wanted. I feel its a struggle for a kiss n cuddle 😞 Its more of a routine, hi hws your day going 'good' 'oh thats good'. Ive tried talking to him but I just dont think he gets it. Do I just let it go focus on my baby and let sex just completely slip out if my life?? Has anyone else been in a similar situation? What do I do?