Would you be offended

So my bf said he’ll never stress over me because he controls himself. So if we’re going through something he acts really nonchalant and careless because he says he’s not stressing himself out over me and he told me why stress over something that’s tired and irrelevant he got that from online 🙄but he said he wasn’t calling me irrelevant . I don’t want him to sit around stressing over me but I do know that when we’re going through things or whatever I’m very caring so I can’t help myself I do stress out about him and our issues when we have them because I just want to be good. I just feel like if you love someone it’s hard to control ur emotions when things get bad it’s hard to just act like you don’t care or just not stress.. I wish I had that much control lol shit!