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Anna

So 3 years ago I was raped by 2 guys and I went and got a rape kit and the medicine to prevent pregnancy and stds.. I decided not to press charges because I felt that I wasn’t ready for that kind of thing. So I just tried to forget about it well, May 16th this year I was going to go out for my bachelorette party and I get a message from a girl.. I accepted the message and she asked how I knew ———- her boyfriend.. her bf was one of my attackers. I told her I didn’t want to talk about it and that she has no worries .. couldn’t figure out how she found me on fb when I blocked him and his friend... well turns out another friend of his actually saw what happened but was too drunk to say anything.. he told her.. so he found me and asked what happened.. I told her again I wasn’t comfortable sharing that with her.. she then proceeds to send me ultrasound pictures with her name on them she was pregnant by him.. so I told her everything and then told her I was gonna block her because I wanted that part of my life behind me. Fast forward to 2 weeks ago.. me and my hubby are happy and ttc I get tagged in a post on fb.. it’s about how the medications they give you to prevent pregnancy and stds after sexual assault can affect your fertility.. I broke down.. my husband has been the biggest trooper and he doesn’t even know how much it means to me. I never went back to the dr for a follow up after my attack.. and my current dr said that I should get tested for chlamydia.. my husband says that he’s okay and that he know I didn’t cheat and that this is not my fault but how should I feel about this ? How can I just go take a pee test and be ok? What if I have had chlamydia for 3 years... please someone tell me I’m not alone in this ..

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