Ladies... opinions please

What are your thoughts on someone in a relationship continuously watching porn on the daily, even after one person in the relationship has STRONGLY expressed how they do not want them doing it numerous times..

Its not just “watching to get off” either,

It’s a daily habit-almost addiction & what they watch is not what the significant other looks like at all(exact opposites).

I personally feel like its not necessarily a form of cheating-but its crossing a boundary because you’re literally fantasizing about fucking other people which i know isn’t PHYSICALLY cheating but its like mentally isnt?

You’re mentally giving yourself to someone else even though its not real life.

Even worse when we’ve talked about how much and why it bothers me, they promise to stop and say they understand yet keep doing it behind my back..

We make our own “home videos” yet its not enough?

No criticism. No backlash please.

Help me try and understand & give me some opinions on how you guys feel about this ..

Edit: Also would like to add..

No i would not rather them watch porn than go out and find someone else. Because in my mind watching porn the way they do(explained above) isn’t “ just watching porn” it feels like cheating.

And even worse they keep doing it knowing i dont like it and with no care to how it makes me feel.

Edit:

Our sex life is literally non existent rn because im 37 weeks pregnant and since i was 7 months he has been too freaked out about having sex/going down on me because our daughter is in my belly(which i understand) but i give him head every other day..

So also note that I have not gotten off myself in almost 3 months

so the fact that he is jacking off to pornstars on the daily and barley even touching me is really starting to get to me

please understand my frustration 😭