Sex is great BUT!

So me and my SO we’re both in the mood to have sex and we’re pretty much always in the mood around the same time but here lately when we do have sex and he goes down to eat me out 🤦🏼‍♀️well it’s terrible I have no problem coaching him on what to do when he’s down there but sometimes I just want to be ate out and not have to say a thing. 🤷🏼‍♀️ But my biggest concern is that when we do finish having sex I usually bleed after not right after but like the next day I bleed and it’s like I get my period 🙄 which sucks because I usually want to have sex multiple days nothing’s better than some good dick ya know. I just need some advice on why this happens to me and is it normal. I tried to ask google but SHIDDDD google will have me thinking I have .30 seconds left to live 😂🤦🏼‍♀️