Very sad and hurtful.

Let me start by saying, I love this app. I’ve had it since 2015 when I started trying with my first. It’s taught me so much and I’ve become and expert at finding those vvfl. Here I am ttc #2, and the culture and atmosphere has completely changed. I see more negative and hateful comments now than I ever have. I see people crushing people’s hopes and dreams all because they aren’t happy with how their journey is going or where they are in their cycle.

My journeys have NOT been easy. It took my husband and I 18 months to conceive our first child. 6 months of clomid, metformin and countless blood draws.

Here we are ttc#2, 14 months in. Same process as before and about to start other further testing. I KNOW how hard it is month after month of swing only one pink line.. Hoping and praying when you test the next day there will be two lines but NEVER getting it. I’ve had chemical pregnancies too.

What I’m trying to say is just because I’m having a hard time and feel like shit about my situation, I would never intentionally be negative or crush someone’s hope. It’s literally gotten to the point I hate posting anything or asking for advice. I feel this community is here to help one another and educate each other. Not to be negative and nasty all the time.

I’m not saying to give false hope when there is no hope but to be nice and educate whoever on whatever they need advice about.

This needs to change.

Sincerely,

LT