Broke up with boyfriend

So I broke up with my boyfriend bc he doesn’t treat me like I feel like I deserve and I’ve told him since the start and nothing has changed. I feel like I’ve hurt him too and have been a bad girlfriend and I just wanted to be better. It got to the point where he thinks of me as mean and everything. I just wanted to be positive.

he says he wants to help but I know nothing ever changes. I’ve messed our relationship up, I can’t be with someone who sees me as those things, it makes me insecure. This is probably confusing and I’ll explain more if you ask. But what I really want to know is how to get over him.