Over thinking or right to be upset

I’m making this anonymous because I’ll probably feel better tomorrow but im so upset with my husband tonight.

After dinner I always feel so sick. And when we first found out we were having a baby he promised to help with anything and he was doing dishes daily, I’ve asked for 3 days for him to do them and nothing. So I broke down and did them at 11 pm.

I asked him a few weeks ago to switch cigarettes he smokes, because the menthol makes me nauseous when I smell it, and he did, until today, he switched back because he said “they all stink so why does it matter?” NO these smell worse.

I’ve also asked him to put his cigarettes out in the ash tray on the front porch but he doesn’t, he just throws them in the dry grass when he’s done, WHICH IS SO DANGEROUS!!

All these little things are adding up tonight and now I’m sleeping on the couch because I’m so upset and he doesn’t really care, says I’m over reacting and he’s done talking about it all.

Advice?