I just need to vent...

My husband is a f😡cking 😠sshole! I got off work, went to the grocery store, planned on coming home and making dinner for him along with his favorite brownies and I went to the library to pick up a movie for us to watch tonight that he has been wanting to watch (even though I don't really like it). All just because.

We live on a 3rd floor apartment and our building has the worst parking, so we often times have to park by another building across the complex. I get home and there are no available spots behind our building. I call him to ask if he will come down and grab a couple things, that way I don't have to carry them all the way from the other side of the complex and then up 3 flights of stairs. I had 3 large, heavy reusable bags full of groceries that had to be taken up right away, big packs of both toilet paper and paper towels, a case of sodas, and a 50lb bag of dog food. All of which I had to ring up, bag, and load in the car with no help. I just wanted him to at least grab 2 of the bags. I could take up the other one and the rest could stay in the car for now. He refused. I begged him to, but he wouldn't. I reminded him if he didn't come help me real quick, I would have to carry these bags across the complex and then up all those stairs. His response, "don't slip on ice". Oh yeah, there's a ton of snow and ice here. I have a bad back, knees, and hips. It's hard enough for me to go up all the stairs as is, and he knows this.

So now my feet are soaked, I'm in excruciating pain, and I'm not making him dinner. He can figure that out on his own. I'm just so pissed that I was going out of my way to do all this for him and he couldn't take 2 minutes to come downstairs to grab a couple bags and really help me out a lot.