Best friend help..

Okay, this will be a kinda long post but I need help on how to support my friend whenever I just wanna smack her upside the head.

So my best friend and her husband got married whenever she found out she was pregnant. They’ve been married a little over a year now, we had to go away for a few weeks for work whenever I found out she was cheating on her husband.

She was cheating with a guy that’s in my team so I found out without her telling me. She then began to tell me all the financial issues that they’re going through because her husband works very minimal hours at Verizon and they bought a house way out of their means (because HE loved it and didn’t want any other house) I told her that I didn’t support her cheating on her husband and she needs to end things with him if she’s unhappy.

Her husband ending up going through her Snapchat one day and found all the messages between her and the guy I work with. He messaged me saying “thank you for keeping all my wife’s secrets” but didn’t tell the guy one thing.

She slowly stopped talking to that guy and decided to make her relationship work.

Well she just came over again after us not seeing each other for 6 weeks (holidays and such) well she begins to tell me that she found out her husband has been cheating on her for the last six months with a girl he met on tinder.

Yes you read that right, HE was cheating on her first with a girl off tinder. He had naked pictures of this girl on his phone, he’s been telling this woman that she’s only with him for the money they never have electricity in their house,that his credit is getting ruined because they don’t have money to pay their mortgage, that she’s way too busy partying all the time rather than taking care of their son. Which is a bullshit lie, she’s an amazing mother and she’s the bread winner, also it’s her credit that’s getting ruined because HE had horrible credit whenever they got married and she had great credit so her name is on everything.

Anyways, she found out and decided that they should just delete all their social media because the girl he was talking to on tinder was blowing him up on all social media and whenever she asked her to stop the girl had the nerve to say “you’re just mad that I can please your man and you can’t.”

And he had been trying to talk to 15 other women on tinder but they didn’t want nothing to do with him because he’s married, (good women)

But since they decided to stop all the social media and work on their relationship he doesn’t allow her to touch him, he doesn’t show her any affection, he comes home and gets on his xbox until she falls asleep. Which I know hurts her a lot because she has really low-self esteem because he had all these left over nudes from his ex girlfriends and girls on tinder that had PERFECT bodies and she is postpartum with stretch marks and a momma pouch.

Anyways his grandmother just died so they rushed down to his home state to be there for the burial, and be there for his family

Well while they were out there my best friend went through his found and found out he unblocked that girls number and was texting her again. She asked when she was going to see him again and he said “not this weekend because I’m in Maryland but next week”

So they got into an argument about it and he grabbed a gun saying that her and their son would be better off without him (he ACTS suicidal whenever he gets caught doing something, so they don’t have to talk about it anymore)

Anyway my best friend calls Verizon and blocks her number through Verizon. She then made it so he wasn’t an authorized user so he couldn’t unblock her.

But then he decides to talk to a girl at his work, telling her that she’s everything he ever wanted and that she’s better than his wife is. That he wished his wife was like her and he regrets it all.

Well my best friend found out about this one and confronted him but all he asks for is another chance. She’s just so scared to leave him because she grew up in a broken home and doesn’t want her son to grow up the same way. But they in such an unloving relationship, and it isn’t healthy for anyone. How would you give advice to her? Because I’m at my wits end, I think they should end it before they have their son growing up in a household where both the parents don’t love each other. But it also kills me to see my best friend bawling her eyes out about the way he talks about her to other people and how he treats her whenever he tells her he wants to work it out

Please anything will help, I wanna know how to be there for her.