My sister and I decided to do my heritage dna. We got our results back and showing I am 75% Irish and she is actually Greek. It also showed that we have a 28% Dna match meaning we are only half sisters. I always knew there was a possibility that my father wasn’t my biological dad but it hurts more now than ever to officially know the truth. Growing up I was never close to my mother. The man she is with now physically and sexually abused my sister and I. She knew about it and still stuck by his side. He has 3 daughters of his own. One turned lesbian because of the sexual abuse. My dad and I have always been the best buds so when I broke the news to him today it broke his heart. I called my mother and had to ask her if the other guy knew about me. And of course he doesn’t. So I looked him up on Facebook, he has a wife and two young kids. I’m torn if I should even reach out to him and let him know he has a 26 year old daughter and two grandkids or if I should just leave it alone and move on. I’m pissed off at my mother for lying to everyone and it seems like she doesn’t even care. She’s always been that way. She has no care for other people’s feelings. She’s even fucked her husbands brother. Like she’s just that scummy of a person. I hope you’re happy that you have 3 baby daddies and don’t give a shit about your kids. Has anyone else ever been through this. How did you reach out to your biological father? How did it go? Any advice is appreciated I’m so nervous and not sure if I should even do this. My father says he will not be upset if I reach out but I still feel like in a way that I’m betraying him if I reach out. Ughhh 😩