So small backstory I prefer having guy friends bc I can hold a conversation better with guys than girl. Sports > dresses.

Anyways i have a guy friend who plays football and he has a gf. We really hang out well together with his football buddies and know how to have a great time without the need for red solo cups. I also tutored him. Over winter break, he posted how he was going to win the superbowl before we leave college with some sick football highlight of him. Thought it was cool and commented something like "Will not leave til I watch you win that ring #getit"

Now MIND YOU this was last month...and YESTERDAY I get a notification that his GF liked my comment. Okay so you mean to tell me this girl took the time to scroll through her boyfriends Instagram and single out my comment to like from last month FOR NO UNDERLYING REASON. Not to mention I tutored this guy, who later failed the course, only to find out his gf failed too. Now he doesnt know ik who his gf is and I only know bc my roomie went to high school with them and they're "high school sweethearts". So its not like I can be direct with him or shit.

This shit just gets me paranoid and honestly is probably the reason why i dont like having girls as friends. The fact that you can get jealous so easily over something so little is stupid. I've felt that he and I have distanced in terms of our friendship because of his gf. I get it. Relationships come first. But I walked by him today, said hello, and it's as if hes changed because he looked at me like he wanted to say hi and held himself back. Now all I'm thinking about is if shes holding him back from talking to me.

Not for nothing, but she seems like somebody who's pretty nice once you get to know her. Idk try to get to know me before you break your mans friendships one by one. Maybe we can ALL be friends. I dont want anything to do with him romantically so why do you have to be destructive.

All over a comment

Why you gotta be so petty?

And the fact that these thoughts spontaneously occur just because of social media culture is insane. It's why I mostly stay away from it. I rarely post and comment. When I decide to make one comment on a rare occasion its gotta blow up to be a big deal.

I get it that it might seem like me making a big deal...but the fact that hes changed after we hugged at the hockey game (seeing each other 1st time since break) and talked a little is NO coincidence. Especially since she didnt even accompany him to the game.

This was supposed to be a regular post but bc of my love for making things extremely long I'm throwing this in rant.