My husband has low T

Yesterday was a bad day. This past weekend my husband slept from 12p Friday to 4pm Saturday. When he got up he was in a bad mood and when he looked at me it was as if he just didn't want me around. We haven't had sex in 29 days. I lost it yesterday. He and I had a huge fight via text while we were working. Then when I got home I went straight to the shower and got ready for bed. I thought he was cheating on me or something so that day i did something bad. I had a friend pretend to be a 18yr girl interested in him. He didn't exactly take the bait but when she said can I send u a pic he said that was up to her. Anyway I flipped out and wanted a divorce and everything. Then he sat down and told me everything. He said it wasn't me but the low T was why he hasn't had sex with me. I did research and he has all the symptoms but there are dangers to treatment. I'm scared if I ask him to see a doctor it would look like I don't care about the side effects. What do I do?

Update. We talked about it and he is going to the doctor today. We broke the no sex record last night thank God but he couldn't last. He cried I cried but I just pray something can be done. I love this man with everything ounce of me and I just want us to get through this together. Thank you for all of the posts. Lol also he massaged my friend pretending to be the teen and said I know this is my wife. I love you so much and we will get through this 😭😭😭 I sobbed like a baby. I know we don't talk about religion but if you don't mind keep is in your prayers. We have a long road. Thank you all!!!