Does anyone else feel the same way..?

I've been trying to take a break from social media.. but neee to see if anyone else feels the same way I do?

Does anyone else here worry too much about pleasing everyone but yourself?

Heres the story for anyone willing to listen.

Im 26, married to my wonderful husband for 2 years in April. My mom passed away 7 years ago and now my dad lives with his new wife. He is absolutely miserable with her. We rent his house from him as a favor to help him pay it off so he can live with his wife and not pay on 2 houses. Our house will be paid off this year but my father never gives us the end date.

Anyways... my husband and I finally gave up trying to conceive after 2 years and a miscarriage and started pursuing a house. At first, my dad wasnt on board with it. He would be losing the convenience of us paying his house off. But we are ready to start living our own lives. Maybe it will take our minds off of ttc. My family has even had to sit my father down and try to get him to see that he is controlling my life and holding me back. But ever since my mom died, and my father is all I have left, I feel obligated to do everything for him. The problem is, I'm also holding my husband back from his dreams of becoming a home owner. My father said if we move out any time soon he will never speak to me again and I just dont know what to do. We already got our approval for the loan and go to look at houses with our realtor on Sunday and just feel so sad.

Does anyone else feel like they have to constantly live to please anyone else? Or just have some encouraging words?

Please be nice, it's a pretty sensitive subject right now.