Is it me or my husband?

Sorry if this is a long post I have to rant. So me and my husband recently got married this past November and have been together 3 years off and on I could say. We recently have moved to another state to where he is from, and he has changed so drastically. He doesn’t help as much as he used to, all he wants to do is play games on PlayStation. The thing is I always want to talk to him about our relationship and he refuses or says about what or there’s nothing to talk about and I’ve told him plenty of times that I need attention and love and he says I take you out and I’m like to Walmart?! That’s it or grocery shopping only never on dates never want to do cute things. But he can go play soccer and all these things with his friends. And I do give him so much love and try to be patient but when I bring up the things he doesn’t do I get blamed for blaming him when in reality I’m not trying to Im trying to make him see that we need to work on things and he can tell me what I need to change or things he doesn’t like that I do but he never wants to. We also do not have sex as we used to and i feel uncomfortable being naked around him because i feel like he does not like the way I look anymore.I need to know if it is me or him being too much. I am already getting fed up with it because I want to feel loved again and feel like I’m attractive.