So for some reason my brother-n-laws wife hates me. (I believe its because every one loves me and it comes easy even knowing I'm a not of a weird person) for the past 3

4 years of my relationship with my husband she has countless times stab me in the back and I have always held a galling friendly hand in return hoping she would calm down and see I'm not out to get her. But the last time she freaked out and started calling my phone, texting me all this sh*t talking about me being a bad mom a terrible person and trying to get me to come fighter her down the street from her house where her mom and 2 sister (who are all F'n crazy!) Are so they can jump me (she didn't say that but that's how they are. Non would fight far) mean while I'm at home its 8:30pm and I'm putting my son to bed and getting ready to go to sleep to and the drama starts. (They was all drunk with 6 kids in the house and not a sober adult.)

Now today they are moving and my father n laws truck is "too small" my sister n law has plains with their truck and here I am with a perfectly good truck and my father n law asks if they can use ours.... I want to say " no F that C U Next Tuesday!" But the christian part of me wants to say " maybe if we're kind she will be kind." (Ya right... I've always been kinda and when it invokes her bad crap happens. Like I get held a gun point with her 2 year old boy screaming "my daddies dead bc hes on the ground bc she left the house while I was there called the cops and told them we was loaded with guns treating her life and she barley got out. B*#!h I was cooking bacon for your hungry son!)

So should I be nice and try and salvage a relationship with her or just cut my loses and try to minimize my contact with such a negative hateful person?