I'm scared to tell my sister I'm pregnant.
I don't know how to tell my sister I'm pregnant a 4th time. For 6 years she has had problems conciveing. And my 1st pregnancy she was happy well because at that point she didn't know she would have problems but with my 2nd pregnancy 4yrs later she didn't take it very well. She cried and stopped talking to me for a while. And soon my mom and rest of my family members started telling me to hold off on having anymore kids till she got pregnant. Then my 3rd pregnancy 2yrs later nobody in my husbands side of the family was really happy about it. But not my family and when I told my sister she wasn't happy either. And again stopped talking to me. But then I was told by my doc the baby stopped growing at 5wks and i had a miscarriage. When I told her I lost the baby she said she was sorry but still didn't talk to me for a few days. Now I'm pregnant again and I'm already 4mths but I haven't told any one on my side of the family. Because of what they always tell me. That I shouldn't get pregnant till she does. So I decided to tell no one on my side of the family only my husbands side cause their side is the only ones who seem happy about it. My plan is to skip thankgiving and Christmas with my family and have my baby without them knowing. And hopefully they feel bad for missing the baby being born. But recently one of my family members found out and she suggested I tell my sister first before telling anyone else. So she won't be hurt that she was the last to know. But I'm still scared to tell her. Because I believe that the reason I lost my last baby was because I received so much negativity when I told everyone. And also I dont want to hurt her but I also don't want to wait on having kids. I don't know what to do. Please help me.
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