im at my wits end with my husband.... when i was pregnant he promised he would help out with the baby and house work has i needed some time to heal not much has i wasn’t havin a c section... i told him i just needed about 24-48 hrs has i wasn’t use to havin stitches below the belt has this is my first baby so i didn’t know what i could expect when i got home and how the healing process would go

well after she was born he held her maybe for 30 mins tops and then left me in the hospital alone to go meet up with his cousin for breakfast ( didn’t bring me any food), took over my hospital bed so he could sleep because he was up for 36

hrs due to me being in the hospital (sorry but i just pushed our daughter outta my damn vagina i should be the one sleeping)

we get discharged and gets home i put her in the cradle we have in our room., i didn’t want her sleeping downstairs alone (nervous something may happen while she’s sleeping) so i tell him i’m gunna take a 15-20 min quick nap if he could sweep the floors and do the dishes i’ll try and mop after i’m awake.... yelp he replied i’ll do it.... i set my alarm for said time and once i’m awake i notice the dishes are still piled high not washed and the floors aren’t swept he was downstairs playing video games and drinking beer at 5pm...

fast forward to last night baby girl was fussy ALL day nothing would settle her so finally at 7pm she passed out ( yes finally i’m gunna nap has well before she wakes again) so i tell him that when he gets ready for bed wake me so i can take the dog out has we take turns and the dog knows this.... so i wake at 11 change baby girl and feed her, i go pee and my natural instinct is okay i’m awake i have to take the dog out... so me thinking he was still downstairs watching tv i get to the end of my driveway and realize damnit no bag for the dog 💩 so i come back and sing out to him to go into our room and keep an eye on the babe.. no response so then i notice his damn sneakers and jacket is gone.... sends him a text to ask where the fuck he escaped to??? he texts back oh out with albert(his cousin) at the DAMN bar...... say what?? dude your fucking lucky my gut told me to get back in the house or i would of left the babe alone for god knows how long thinking you were just down stairs watching tv or working on something for

work in the office...

it his excuse is just amazing... i didn’t send you a text because i thought the ding on your phone would wake you and the baby.... WTF!!! is that shit .... i was beyond pissed...