Heeelp I am desperate

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Mommas I am desperate , my one year old daughter sleep all day and doesn't eat and when she eats she stopped eating as much . She been sick with ACUTE RUI and Conjuctivitis and I been trying to take care of her , I give her liquids to keep her hydrated and I even changed her milk to Soy Milk because I know is healthier , I been giving her fruits like Strawberry and Banana , and been cooking whole wheat pasta and I changed her cereal to organic cereal all because I want her to be healthy ! And ugh it's been soo hard I am in disbelief , today I tried to give her mini potatoes not french fries made in the oven with butter , salt ( very little of it ) and other things , like strawberrys , and I gave her 100% cranberry juice , I been giving her medicine , and even came to the point to give her baby corn and beans and rice and everything that is nutritive . I been trying so hard to make her eaaat and is breaking my heart she eats little if nothing at all and throws her plate to the ground !!! 😢😢 She is not teething , she doesn't have a fever and I am done I feel like I will just have to take her to the hospital and I feel like a failure as a mother cuz my own baby doesn't like my food ! And about her sleeping all day I try to do activities with her , I try to motivate her , I try to make her play with her toys I try to tell her stories sing her songs but at the end of all she cries and wants to sit on my lap all day or simply wants to go back to her crib . I tough about her having growth pain right now but I don't know and she doesn't talk much . Does anyone has any ideas on what I can do ? And yes she started daycare 2 weeks ago and all the teachers say she is a nice baby and she follows instructions and haven't shown any abnormal behavior . I came to the point to think she was probably feeling neglected and I was doing something wrong and gone to the pediatrics and had people from the hospital coming to my house alredy so they could see my day with her and my routine and they found she was being a difficult baby which lead me to continue parents & teachers class ! I know some of u will be mad because I am writing this here but I am losing my mind and I can't go back to my job until she gets better because I would worry about her all day . And has alredy been a week of missing my job , so any of u have any ideas ? What can I do ??