I didn't get anything at my baby shower

Am I being ungrateful, because I am kind of hurt. All I got was 20 dollars... No one brought anything... Not even a card... We spent hundreds of dollars entertaining and hosting birthdays, christmas parties, etc...

Disclaimer- i am not a first time mom. We have another child. Our family forced us to throw the shower. We are just shocked are how rude people were. They didnt really even talk to us, ate food and left. Didnt get a hug or anything... Not even a card or a congrats.