I dont even know anymore

I'm literally so lost on what to do. My husband is so indecisive and he recently made a decision that made moving back home from getting out the army SO MUCH HARDER! I feel like emotionally I'm having to do things alone, and when shit hits the fan THEN he wants my opinion on what to do! And my anxiety is so bad that if something ends up going slightly bad its my fault cause he made me choose between a rock and a hard place.

Theres so much more just didnt want you all to read a novel haha