I want to propose but dont know his plans? How should I handle this?

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So our 2nd year anniversary is Oct 7th. I want to propse to him on our 3rd year anniversary. And I have a plan to do it. But the only issue is that I do know he would like to be the one to propse, which I'm perfectly fine with. And I know he'd be upset if he didnt get to do it, because he likes to be very romantic and make little special plans and its really sweet and cute <3. But how should I go about this? Should I work on proposing anyways so that if by our 3rd year he hasnt already I can ask the question?

Here's my plan if you're interested xD I'm proud of it ^.^:

So I'm an animator, making a cartoon series based around mine and his characters from Minecraft (sounds silly and all but if youd see it youd like t, its not at all what most people imagine a Minecraft series to be. In fact heres a little look at my partners character:

Hes definitely unfinished and yet to add depth or emotion or the rest of his clothes... ANYWAYS. The idea is to have mine and his characters preparing for their 3rd year anniversary, but keeping it secret from each other. My character will be "remaking" a beautiful landmark from New Zealand (my partners dream vacation   place) because we dont have the money to actually go there. And his character will be on a search to round up a thousand bunnies (i freaking love bunnies) because bunnies are illegal where we live. And theyll each go through a series of funny events trying to hide their special gifts from each other. And upon the reveal theyll both be super happy, hug and all that gushy cute stuff and love/combine their gifts. New zealand full of cute little bunnies everywhere. And then I either want my character to propose in the video, or I want to have some kind of caption effect/type effect thats built in to the scene, asking if he'll marry me. And he whole thing will be put to The Piano Guys cover of Love Story :3. And i'd show him the video in some kind of romantic way and then we shag it all night \o/ xD

so yeah thats the basic idea and I'm really excited to do it. BUT THE QUESTION STANDS, should I? I do not want to take away the moment from him as I know he'd love to be the one to propose and it means a lot to him. Maybe I could just change the video so it ends in a celebration of our 3 years together?

What do you all think? I need another womans opinion :D

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Don't take that away from him. Let him be romantic and propose to you! Especially since you said it means a lot to him. Just be patient, if he's as romantic as you say then you will not want to miss the proposal he hadls in store. You can end it with your 3 year that's a cute idea.

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You already know he will be disappointed if he doesn't get to ask you. So I advise you to be patient and let him do it.

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Girl are u slow why wld u propose to him i swear this new school shit is killing me

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It sounds like you're more than ready now and growing impatient about it. Honestly if he still hasn't proposed in over a year with you feeling that way, you definitely have the right not to have to wait forever for him to pop the question.

However I do think that if the timing feels one-sided to you that maybe a talk with him is in order. After 2 years, talking about the idea of when he sees himself married shouldn't be a discussion he avoids.

Ultimately, if it feels like he's dragging his feet, maybe he's just saving up for the perfect ring (very possible!) or, maybe he really is dragging his feet. Without being too nosy about specifics you should at least have an idea.

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Don't propose to him, ecspecialy since you know he wants to be the one to do it. If he hasn't asked you by your third year anniversary then he's clearly not ready. You proposing puts pressure on the relationship the relationship. 
Let him sweep you off your feet, not the other way around.

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Don't take the moment away from him. Be patient and wait on him to propose. You can do something special for your anniversary but don't propose. That's his moment to show you how much he loves and appreciates you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

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Don't listen to the negative comments, if this is something YOU really want, then do it. Regardless if you ask or he does. If you both really want to be together then it doesn't matter who asks, you'll be getting married and spending the rest of your lives together and that's more important than anything else. 
So get some confidence and ask him!!💖

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Let him do it, because when he is ready he will ask you. And there will be no doubt.

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A lot can happen in a year, be patient

I want to propose but dont know his plans? How should I handle this?

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