Rant!

I love my mother in law and she is super helpful when it comes to my little one but she likes to give my husband advice about our baby and he comes and suggests that we need to do it. It aggravates me cause one I spend majority of the time with my daughter she is about to be 4 months. I will not let her CIO idc what other people think I should do or what they do with their kids. She’s my baby I do what I feel is best for her and my way works because she barely cries when she’s with me because she trust me. I can put her down and move around with out her throwing a fit because she feels comfortable and safe with me. She cries with other people because she’s not familiar with them and my husband works more than me so he’s not around her as much. Even tho when I work I still get up to do the midnight feedings and I’m losing sleep you don’t hear me bitching or crying about it. I do what ever for my baby. So don’t come and tell me how I need to be with her when I spend 95 percent of the time with her. He gets upset cause he can’t soothe her and it’s his own fault. Be more involved learn how to bond with her do your research and maybe she will be a little more trusting with you. Sometimes he can be so clueless. Ugh gets me so mad when people give unwanted advice.