My Fiancé thinks he’s too good for us??

Hey Guys so i need advice... so I’ve been with my fiancé for about 5 years now, we have a baby girl together she’s 1 and a half, every once in a while He will go out with his guy friends or I’ll go out with my girls. Every-time i go out and come back the next day he’s always in a bitchy mood the entire day and usually is complaining about how he needs to rest since he took care of the baby all night and some of the morning.. (I’m a stay at home mom btw and he works a full time desk job) I’ll give him his rest and everything and he will still continue to throw it in my face that he just watched our child the night before every chance he can get. This isn’t just when i go out, it’s every weekend. He will sit there and be like i need my rest, i work all week long and i get that but he also needs to understand that staying at home taking care of our baby is also tiring and a “Job” He doesn’t find it as a job, he thinks what he does is much more work and he has a reason to be tired but I don’t 🤷🏻‍♀️ He also will hardly ever be romantic towards me and makes an excuse as to why not to be, like I’ll be “You haven’t hugged or kissed me since you got home and he’ll answer with “I was eating or i was taking care of our child” LOL like wth? Also when we go out and buy our kid clothes or anything her, he’ll always throw it our faces that thanks to his hard work he was able to buy everything our daughter needed. He will say like “Daddy works his butt off to make sure you guys have what you need” “It’s stressful but i do this for you guys” Like ok, we get it. I understand he is such a hardworking man I appreciate it but literally every single time we buy things for our daughter he never fails to mention that. It’s so annoying. I don’t know, all of this really pushes me to the edge and makes me want to scream! Sorry for the long post, just trying to give as much as info as i can.