Should I break up?

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My fiancé and I have been together for 5 years. He hardly ever drinks but last night he came stumbling in drunk after a bachelor party. At first he started going on about how much he loves me, can’t wait to marry me and start a family with me. But then he said something very hurtful. I know he was drunk but it still hurt. He said he isn’t physically attracted to white girls (I’m white, he’s black) but that he made an exception for me because he loves who I am inside. 
I haven’t talked to him about it yet. He can’t remember anything that happened because he was so wasted. Should I break things off?

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This would be such a silly thing to breakup over, tbh.. Talk to him about what he said. People say stupid shit when intoxicated.

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Over one thing he said while drunk that wasn’t even that offensive? No. But if your relationship is that fragile then you need to have a few conversations before you actually get married

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Maybe he just doesn’t think most white women are attractive except you 🤷🏻‍♀️I’m pretty sure there is some kind of physical attraction as that’s usually a pretty big thing in a relationship at first is being attracted to some one. I would just mention it to him

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I think you should break up for his benefit as dying are clearly extremely immature.

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If you want to break up over that then you're not ready to get married. You can't throw in the towel every time he says something that may offend you. Just talk to him

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i don't find white boys attractive 
but i love my SO who happens to be white ,
it's a really good thing believe me

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Don't throw away 5 years over a drunk comment from a man who doesn't really drink. I've told my husband I hate cats drunk off my ass before. Drunk words don't always speak a sober mind.

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Bach party on a Tues night? Damn.    The fact you’re asking makes me think you’ve been thinking of leaving him anyway and arent happy tbh

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You are no where near close to being ready for marriage lol, so maybe yes you should break up with him because you won’t make it

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I feel like he was trying to be sweet but since he was drunk it didn’t come off like he meant it too. Like I think he meant it as a compliment that he loves who you are. I wouldn’t leave someone over it just talk to him about it

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