I know this is some form of emotional abuse...

Whenever my boyfriend does or says something that really upsets me, and I tell him it hurt my feelings and so on, he tells me it’s all in my head and tries to justify himself and will never apologize. His #1 thing he says is “yeah nobody cares what you’re talking about.” I could be trying to discuss a huge major issue in our relationship and he says that to me. He could lie to me (he has lied to me about big and small things- never cheating but many other things) and I call him out on it and he tries to persuade me he didn’t lie and says I love drama and tries to make ME feel like shit. He will never take responsibility for any of his wrongs (and if he does he continues doing the same thing) and always tries to turn everything around on me even if it’s off topic. And he will say “are you over it yet?” without even saying anything to make me feel better or tell me he acknowledges the problem and wants to fix it. I could be in tears and he says that to me.

I know his behavior is wrong and he’s trying to minimize my feelings and act like he is always in the right. But my question is why? Why do that to someone you claim you love and want to spend the rest of your life with? Why am I being treated this way?