hey ladies! I’m in need of some advice and would really appreciate it if anyone could help me out.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now, my best friend (who is also dating my bf’s best friend) has progressively become weirder with me ever since. She’s seemed very uninterested in our friendship and has caused a lot of unnecessary drama between the four of us (Her, her bf, my bf, and myself) and it’s getting messy.

This week her and my boyfriend (who used to really like her, until she started being a not so great friend to me) got into kind of a big fight, in which I chose not to take any sides, but apparently to her I took his side and now she’s avoiding me and shading me on her finsta and other social media. She would also get upset with me when I would hang out with my other friends this past month and a half or so.

I tried talking it out with her but she ended up playing victim and blamed me for being a bad friend and claimed I’ve changed since him and I started dating, but all of my other friends disagree with that.

I’ve done a lot for her and am very sad to see the way she’s handling everything, I still love her and care about her but I just don’t know if I should keep trying to save a friendship that just isn’t working anymore. Would I be a bad person for distancing myself and letting her go? (Also, we only got super close and became besties about 2 months before my bf came into the picture).

I’d love to just get the opinions of others who don’t know her or myself so it’s completely unbiased. Thank you all!!