Why am I crumbling and he’s ok.

Question

Going through a terrible separation. Got thrown out of the house 5 days later get served with custody papers. 2 days later go to the house to get something’s I need and he changed the locks. Seriously? What else could possibly go wrong! 
I am just beside myself. I love him with all I have. Clearly he wanted this. He is happy and I am over here just beside myself.
Why does this have to happen to me. I want to be strong but I literally am drowning.
We have one child together, and I have a child from a previous who calls him dad.
He has not asked once about him and my child is so depressed I can see the hurt in his eyes. It’s killing me. I haven’t heard him laugh in a week. He told me he doesn’t want to get out of bed and he’s young so I know he’s not aware of depression. 
How do I deal with keeping us strong?

Answer

If I was in your shoes I would keep it together for the kids. Involving the kids in any kind of adult issue regarding the separation is never okay. I would simply tell my kiddos that we are gonna go stay with grams and poppy for a little bit until mommy figures a couple things out, promise everything is okay. If they ask about their daddy and he won’t pick up the phone, i would tell my son that daddy’s working but he loves him to death and I know he can’t wait to see him again. Period end of story. I definitely wouldn’t be going into details about mommy and daddy separating or getting a divorce at this point.  If they question why they aren’t living with daddy, keep things simple. Right now mommy and daddy aren’t staying in the same house but daddy loves you so so much, I know your looking forward to spending time together. 
It’s early, who knows what the future holds. When you talk to him, because you both are going to HAVE to talk to each other at some point to coparent. You both can come together and talk to the kiddos as a unified front to let them know that mommy and daddy still love each other but our love is different. It’s better for mommy and daddy to not be together but we still are friends and we will do anything to make sure you can see / talk with mommy or daddy when you want. 
I’m sorry things are so difficult right now, they do ease up with time. My girlfriend didn’t talk to her ex husband for 3 weeks before they were both comfortable enough to sit down and discuss the kids only. Court can figure out the material belongings.

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I’m sorry you are going through this. Try to imagine a great life without him. Keep a brave face, don’t show him you are crumbling

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You can do this. 
I got kicked out while I was pregnant with my second so that my ex could invite his (now wife and step mom to my kids) over to hook up. 
I slept in a car and had a 5 year old who would see me come and go and ask questions. It was terrible.
I promise you can do this.
Now I’m remarried to a man who literally burst into tears the other day because i “just look so pretty.” 
It’ll be okay. 
Try to be strong and know that time will heal you. My heart breaks for you. Please let me know if you need an ear.

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So call the cops. If ur name is on the lease or you have lived there for 6 months you are technically a tenant. He cant kick you out. And who the hell kicks their children out? Fuck this guy. Call the cops to get your stuff and the kids.

Why am I crumbling and he’s ok.

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