My husband wants to go active duty for army. He’s already in the national guard and I have a hard enough time with once a year when they go away for 2 weeks. My depression and anxiety gets the best of me and I feel like our marriage is falling apart. We just bought a house, what do you we do with the house? What about his kid that he wants custody of? I feel like I’m being selfish by not wanting him to go active because I don’t think my nerves can take it. I love him to death and he’s my whole heart, but idk what will happen to everything we’re trying to buy and then trying to start a family, I feel like everything is going to fall apart. What happens to the house? Everything that we’re making payments on? Will he have to sign his rights over for his kid? My nerves are upset just thinking about it honestly. Tell me what will happen to everything please, or if it’s even a good idea for him to go active. I need facts and not feel crazy out of my mind.