Weaning a very spoiled baby!

Help! My 13.5 month old diva wakes up like a newborn at night just to nurse. I'm talking every 30min-2hrs all night long. Just depends on her "mood". She only nurses during the day if she gets hurt or to nap. She has associated boob with sleep and it's bad! She use to let her daddy get her back to sleep if she woke up and now oh no it has to be the boob! She screams til I give in. She also wont take a bottle anymore or sippy cup or breast milk. She use to with no issues, but now she wants it straight from the tap ONLU. We have been trying everything since 11.5months old. Formula( she wouldnt even taste it, I gave in after her pediatrician telling me to stop beating myself up about it and she took a look at it and threw the cup! Lol) whole milk, 2%, almond milk, vanilla almond milk, recently toddler formula vanilla flavored. She will not drink any of it. She drinks water from a sippy cup all day. Sometimes I put a splash of Gatorade zero in it. She doesnt get juice at all. Help! We co sleep. Tried to change that at 6months and she wouldnt sleep in her crib. It's not the nursing I mind, it's the waking up so much! You're 13mths. Time to sleep at least 4hours straight! I'm so tired. My son is 4.5 and still doesnt sleep through the night without melatonin. So basically it's been 4.5 years of being a zombie. I may get 3 solid hours every night. I'm tired yall. Tired. Pic bc shes so damn cute!