Question

Not sure if this belongs here 🤷🏼‍♀️

So got into argument with the other half. Stated my point. He asks if I’m angry. I said no...I’m irritated. He blows up and says he is just looking out for me and baby. Like literally blows up yelling (like a tantrum a little child throws). I’m like...wait a second you asked me if I was angry and I said no but I’m irritated...am I not allowed to be irritated?? You always let me know when you are irritated with me. He says...I’m just telling you that I want you and baby to be safe. I’m like....DUH I GET IT!!! You are the one who is flying off the handle because I say I’m irritated. 🤦🏼‍♀️. So I tell him to join me and baby. Help me shower baby. He says no. He didn’t sleep with us. He slept in a separate room. He was also on his phone playing games. Like what??? Guys I know this isn’t normal. But is it?? Baby hasn’t showered. I couldn’t shower. All I can think is....dude you really selfish. He walked past the baby. Baby was crying because she was stuck...HE WALKED PAST HER!! What the hell??? He tells me he doesn’t like to play high school where he ignores people because they did him or me wrong. THEN WHAT THE HELL IS THIS???

Please someone tell me...

And if you need more detail in the story then never mind....my brain is so angry to even type the whole thing. I just don’t understand how a husband can act like this to his wife. Or a father to his child....