am i in the wrong/overreacting?

my boyfriend asks me for tit pics almost everynight that im not with him, and tonight i declined. he kept asking and asking and i told him i would send if he were to sending dick vids first. he said that wasn’t fair and he proceeded to ask again. i declined once again and he left me on read. i said “damn the disrespect” and he said “what do you mean” so i said “leaving me on read for not sending nudes” to which he reply “yea well it’s rude” so i replied saying “wtf who even are you”. i feel like i’m going to cry. am i overreacting? should i just let it go?