Stepchildren 😬

Okay a little backstory. I’m 21 and I have a 6 month old son. My boyfriend is 28 and he has 2 boys, 6 and 2. They love me and my little boy which I’m so thankful for.

I’m the first girl that he’s been since he’s been separated from their mom and she was a little shocked in the beginning.

I am terrified to do anything wrong or to say the wrong things around them. Their mother and I get along but she gets the 6 year old to spy on her dad constantly when he stays with him. I’m so scared that I’ll say something and it will get told to her wrong. I would never be mean to them but if they’re obviously doing something they shouldn’t I tell them to stop. How do you deal with that and the other parent if you have step children? This all so new to me.