Am I Overreacting?
Alright ladies, honest opinions a criticism welcome đ my BF and I are both 20 and living with his mother. I adore him to fucking pieces but Iâm getting tired of the same old routine. When we first got together weâd go on breakfast dates or little things to get out of the house. He just got his âbig boy jobâ at NASA and works roughly 8 hours a day (not mad at that AT ALL, super proud); but everyday he comes home and naps for a good couple hours, cooks dinner for his family (fam of 5 including me), and we relax until itâs time for the same thing the next day. *note: he has a heart condition that plays into this which I definitely respect; BUT he doesnât follow any of his doctors orders or advice, let alone follow up appointments that can help him so I honestly donât feel that bad.* I digress, when we do go out itâs with his entire family for a day trip, not an us trip. Iâve brought this up with him before and itâs almost as if he doesnât care?? He just shows no effort to want to better the situation. Itâs not that Iâm unhappy or bored Iâm just, frustrated. Any advice???
Update: thank you ladies for your comments!! I definitely enjoy seeing opinions and thoughts from different people and their own relationship aspects!! I did try to bring my points up to my bf and he seemed very negligent of how I was feeling, he didnât really offer any sort of compromise...just the same things I always hear. I donât want to say I feel âtrappedâ in this situation, but I will say I feel more trapped in my own thoughts than anything else! Will let you know how things go!
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