Am I Overreacting?

Alright ladies, honest opinions a criticism welcome 😂 my BF and I are both 20 and living with his mother. I adore him to fucking pieces but I’m getting tired of the same old routine. When we first got together we’d go on breakfast dates or little things to get out of the house. He just got his “big boy job” at NASA and works roughly 8 hours a day (not mad at that AT ALL, super proud); but everyday he comes home and naps for a good couple hours, cooks dinner for his family (fam of 5 including me), and we relax until it’s time for the same thing the next day. *note: he has a heart condition that plays into this which I definitely respect; BUT he doesn’t follow any of his doctors orders or advice, let alone follow up appointments that can help him so I honestly don’t feel that bad.* I digress, when we do go out it’s with his entire family for a day trip, not an us trip. I’ve brought this up with him before and it’s almost as if he doesn’t care?? He just shows no effort to want to better the situation. It’s not that I’m unhappy or bored I’m just, frustrated. Any advice???

Update: thank you ladies for your comments!! I definitely enjoy seeing opinions and thoughts from different people and their own relationship aspects!! I did try to bring my points up to my bf and he seemed very negligent of how I was feeling, he didn’t really offer any sort of compromise...just the same things I always hear. I don’t want to say I feel “trapped” in this situation, but I will say I feel more trapped in my own thoughts than anything else! Will let you know how things go!