I can’t fucking take it anymore!!!

I love my boyfriend so much I’d do anything for him. But his mom my goodness I can’t take it. So me and my boyfriend got back together after dating last year. He used to live 20 minutes away from me now he lives in my city and only 5 minutes away from me. He recently moved into apartments with his brother and his mom. He told me rent was about $1700 a month him and his brother pay $600 a month and his mom pays the rest. That’s how he told me it worked out(that’s what he told me what the plan was) . We got back together after a month of him living there. A week after telling me that okay now rent is due. His brother and him give their mom their rent like there supposed to. THEY HAD ALL OF THE RENT MONEY. Ready to turn in. And you know what she does..... she spends its... ALL OF IT. To go to Atlanta last minute so her ticket was $900. So after spending it mind you my boyfriend is the little brother and his brother that lives with them is the oldest in the house between the both of them. So after spending all the rent money. She turns to my boyfriend and says “Marcus (my boyfriends name) what are we going to do? You need to figure something out for rent” in my head I’m thinking why him? Why does he need figure it out when YOU spent it all. We’ve been together officially for 4 months and this has happened every single time. I even had to chip in and give them $200 off of my credit card for rent which made my credit go down. She promised to pay me back and never did. She spends all the rent money every month, makes my boyfriend beg his friends for money promising to pay them back, and then my boyfriend has to end up paying them back because she never does. So that’s creating more work for him. Other things about her bother me too such as the fact that she’s sooooo needy towards him. She acts like he’s her boyfriend instead of her son. Such as the other night she was complaining that she was hungry and that me and him after we both got out of work and we’re super tired, to go get her food. I don’t understand why she couldn’t get it herself considering the fact that she had just walked in the door and had my boyfriends car. So okay she’s saying she doesn’t want to eat out so we take her to not one but two grocery stores because she was complaining the whole time and rubbing her stomach, about how she didn’t want to cook. So finally after all the complaining in the store the whole time we were there we take her to Panda Express. I didn’t get anything I wasn’t hungry and I was irritated because I was tired. She orders this complicated ass order we sat there for like 10 minutes because nobody knew wtf she was talking about. Anyways my boyfriend hands her the food she’s sitting in the backseat because she hates sitting in the front and always makes me sit in the front. So he hands it to her she starts saying “why do I have to hold the food... why do I have to hold the food” at this point I’m trying my hardest not to reach back there and throw these hands. My boyfriend ignored her and handed her the food... AND SHE DROPS IT 😩. I felt like walking home. Anyways so we get back to his house and I’m like finally I can lay down. It was all nice and cold I go to his room I put back on my pjs and lay down. I close my eyes and not even a minute later my boyfriend yells “babe you gotta get up my mom wants to watch a movie in here with us.” As soon as he said that I started packing my shit and told them I’m going tf home. It’s just so hard being with him. She’s constantly riding around in his car so we can’t go on dates and when we do try to go somewhere in his car she’s always like “you better not waste all the gas in there” like what? She doesn’t make not one payment on that car but she’s always in it. And I’ve been having to take him to work. Anyways she constantly wants us to go places with her, and when she gets into situations like spending all the rent money and asks my boyfriend “well what are we going to do” and he replies I don’t know? She threatens to kill herself. And I’m sorry to say this I feel really bad saying this but I’m starting to think the whole depression bit is an excuse for my boyfriend not get upset with her when she does stupid stuff. She is a very Christian woman who always prays and says she speaks to god. And god has her do specific jobs which is reasons why she won’t get a regular job. She always busts into the room when me and my boyfriend are trying to be alone, she always calling him when me and him are together. And tonight after my boyfriend got out of work at 8pm she made him drive her 45 minutes away and drop her off. He comes home I’m thinking since she’s gone I can finally have him to myself and we can cuddle and maybe have sex. As soon as I get in the car she calls saying she’s ready to go. I’ve never been so pissed. He also has work in the morning. There other things that she does that I just can’t even explain. I kinda think his mom is toxic, but I have no right to say anything. I don’t want to leave him because I love him so much and he’s such a sweet person. I like his mom also but I just wish she would give him some space so me and him can spend time together. Like his older brother always has his girlfriend over and she doesn’t bother them to do anything like AT ALL. Idk what to do. Am I overreacting? Is this normal? I need advice. There was also an incident where they invited me to the casino that was two hours away. We get there around 8pm it was her idea to go. So we get there they each have their own money. They trade there $20 bills for 1’s so his mom is sticking them in the machine and losing, my boyfriend is sticking his money in the machine and his wins a couple bucks on each machine so he get the little paper thing that has the amount on it so he can get it cashed when he’s done playing. So then me and him try to go off and find other machines to play, she stopped us everytime from

Leaving “Marcus don’t leave me.. I don’t know how to play” first of all why did we drive 2 hours away to a casino and you don’t know how to play any of the slots. Anyways she has like $10 in 1’s and my boyfriend has like $20 in 1’s , tell me why she is asking my boyfriend for his 1’s while she has money literally in her hand. So of course being the nice guy he is he gives her everything until he has only a dollar left. She keeps her money and then she also asks for the money he won and of course being the nice guy he is he gave it to her. Things like that pissed me off. Idk if maybe I’m just being a bitch about it. I need advice.