Please help

I’ve got a problem. I dated a guy named Oliver for two years and we broke up in April. I started seeing this other guy named Matt about two months ago now we’re dating and everything’s fine.

Me and Oliver had a real connection when we first met and I just loved him to absolute bits. Sex was great too. Like best I’ve ever had. The first year of our relationship was amazing then some shit happened with him and his family and it got rocky. Pretty much whenever he was a dick I called him out and he’d dump me. He would dump me over and over and then apologise a few hours later and we’d get back together and it was just a vicious cycle. Very emotionally draining.

I’ve known Matt for a few years, we went to school together, and we only got close a couple months ago, then we started fucking and it escalated from there. Matt’s lovely, just really sweet really gentle. I care about him a lot and I’d hate to hurt him but he’s just not Oliver.

Obviously I’d never get back with him cause that shit was baaaddd but I think maybe I should give myself more time to get over it before I continue things with Matt.

I just don’t think it’s fair on Matt for me to still be thinking about Oliver but I really don’t want to hurt him either.

My best friend says it’s fine cause Oliver was such a big part of my life, it’s natural for me to still be feeling the hole he left in my life but I want more opinions

Also me and Oliver don’t speak, we were on good terms then I saw him at a party a few weeks ago and he tried to grab me in the back yard. I messaged him the next day and told him if he spoke to me again I’d break his nose and he claimed to not remember the whole thing so yeah

So option A: stay with Matt, don’t tell him anything about my recent feelings around Oliver

Option B: break up with him and give myself more time to get over Oliver

Option C: stay with Matt but tell him about all the Oliver stuff

Plz comment opinions xxxxx

Also here’s a photo of me and Matt