Vaccinating ...

Sooo I got the whooping cough (TDAP) vaccine a couple weeks ago to pass the antibodies to my baby. I’m due this month and I have been asking my boyfriend over and over when are you getting the vaccine? Because obviously it’s important for everyone who is going to be around our child to be vaccinated. My mom got vaccinated, my sister did... and its like he’s saying he will but he hasn’t done it yet and it’s really pissing me off. Whoever needs to get it needs to get it at least two weeks before shes born which she could be born early, you never know. Another thing is that I would also expect his mother to get the vaccine as well if she is planning to visit her when she is born and be around her. He hasn’t brought this up to her and I feel he needs to be the one to do this also. Should I blatantly tell him today, here’s the ultimatum, if your mom isn’t vaccinated she isn’t seeing our child period. Idk what else to dooo. It’s really pissing me off.