Bad mom?

So to start this off I just wanna day my little one just turned 7 months old. Here lately he’s been a mommas boy and I love it I’ve never felt more needed in life by anyone not even my husband. But tonight my husband comes home and says he’s going to book a trip to Tennessee (we are from Indiana). I asked him what for he explained to me how he thinks we need a honeymoon cause we never got one. I asked who would be watching the baby because I’m not ready to leave him for that long at a time. He instantly got pissed and said I’m over protective and obsessed with LO. He says I need to stop trying to be there all the time and missing out on things with him won’t hurt me. Then he throws in my face I need a new job because I work with males and he thinks I’m having an affair. (By the way I am not) I’m so hurt and angry. Does he want me to be a bad mom cause I won’t. I can’t express myself to him he tells me he doesn’t care how I feel blah blah blah. Inside deep down I’m down with it.