My best friend has changed so much, and it’s not for the best

Ali

I’m not sure if I’m the only one that’s noticed between us two but our friendship is literally falling apart. She has changed so much since last year. She’s become more open and has started to talking to guys and all that, which doesn’t bother me I’m happy that she’s out of her shy shell. But her attitude towards me has shifted so much. So just before (less than 10 minutes ago)

Before that my sister asked me to send her a picture of her underwear. So I sent it

I asked my ‘best friend’ to open the snap I just sent because it sent to a bunch of people and I didn’t know what it was. So I’m there literally scared because I’m thinking the picture of the underwear sent to more than 10 people. I said “what did I just send” she says “I haven’t opened it, I’ll open it tomorrow morning”. At this stage I’m desperate and 2 people had already opened it. I’m begging her like please bro just check and that’s it. She had the audacity to say “fark really, I’ll open it tomorrow”

LIKE WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. if she asked me to do that I would have done it straight away. I know she isn’t going to sleep anytime soon, I’m just so mad I had t ask another friend and she replied straight away telling me it was a picture about the library. Relief flooded me instantly, but it’s sad to see that someone else saw how desperate I was and helped. Yet my so called ‘best friend’ couldn’t. Like I’m still in shock.

At this stage I would be surprised if our friendship makes it into the next year. 2 years ago she because really close with another girl but they fell off. Now she’s all besties with another girl in our group. We used to talk so much now we hardly do. It’s honestly really sad, I’ve put in 110% into this friendship, I always help her with shit and she’s never done anything for me. The last time I remember her helping was so long ago.

Like I booked a moving truck for her and her family to move houses just so her mum wouldn’t stress. I would come home late because she wanted me to go to the city with her just so I could ‘drop’ her off to where she was meeting her cousin. I’m honestly giving up with this friendship I’ve put in 110% and she’s given nothing back.

Thanks for listening in any advice would be helpful.

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