Yay I'm a bad mom...

35 weeks pregnant.. and the father already calls me a bad mother. I could careless what he thinks of me. I take care of myself. I speak to him and his family with respect and kindness. I keep him updated with doctor appointments and when I started getting Braxton hicks. But because his first baby mama is more "independent and mature" and I'm asking for child support.. he gets to call me a bad mother? Because I need help? I could go off and say what drama the first baby mama put him thou. I can be mean and tell his mother what he tells me behind closed doors. But what will I accomplish?

Sorry needed to rant.