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Hello ladies! I am coming to you all for some advice so please hear me out. I am currently 32 weeks and 5 days pregnant, waiting on my little baby girls arrival. Well I need to know your opinion on whether or not I should call my Babydaddy/husband when I go into labor or let him just find out on his own? Here is a little history so you ladies can make ya choice.

We split up June 7 because of a domestic violence situation. I have allowed him to put his hands on me before but not while I’m pregnant that’s where I drew the line. He left that day in a cop car and I had to fight him in court the following week. This was his 4th domestic (3 on me 1 on my mom). I granted him permission to contact me only via phone to check on the baby. Other than that we have a restraining order. Well he checked up at first but then more drama for started with him saying it isn’t his and that if I won’t be with him he don’t want anything to do with her. Well after I said I’m done he ghosted me for weeks. Got another girl. Now they are trying to conceive, are engaged, whole nine yards in just 2 months! Crazy part is this girl knows me. Used to bully me in high school and knows how he is. She’s been giving me trouble wanting to take my child and telling me I’m unfit and all this other crap but I’m not going into that that’s not why I made this post. He has not bought her anything except one outfit. I always messaged him if he would go half and half on her big stuff. Or try and stock up on diapers and clothes. Absolutely nothing. He didn’t even respond. So now fast forward I have all I need for her so don’t worry she will be cared for! I’m just not sure if I want to call him because that is his child. Or if I should just let him find out on his own 🤷‍♀️. Because honestly he doesn’t want to be a dad. He chose not to contact me. Even said he wishes the baby was dead during that incident when he got arrested! So ladies. What is your opinion? REGARDLESS his new girl WILL NOT be there.