Sexless marriage advice

Hey guys - I’m hoping for some advice on how to address or start to address a sexless marriage. It’s been 15 months since my husband and I had sex or any form of intimacy other than kiss/hug/snuggle and that was the time our daughter was conceived. We had our little girl in March and no sex during pregnancy or after.

Our sexual relationship before than wasn’t frequent, maybe once every 3-6 months. However before we got married it seemed much more frequent - but we’ve only been married 3 years.

Have any of you experienced this specifically during/after pregnancy

How did you even start to handle it

What questions do I even start with

I honestly feel like he’s not even phased by it and I feel perverted having an issue with it.

Any help/advice so greatly appreciated. Also considering a counselor for us too.

Thanks ladies!