Feel horrible. (Rant)

There’s so much tension between my boyfriend and I. I’m just not happy. I’m “mean” bc when I ask him to do something I say it rudely. Well maybe it wouldn’t come out rude if I didn’t have to ask more than once. I feel like I do everything , clean up laundry feed the baby(solids) wash bottles bathe the baby put the baby to sleep and I also work on top of all this. all while he gets to sit and be on his computer/game. His thing is it’s his alone time. I get he works from 6-4 (sometimes later)everyday and I get he needs his alone time but what about me? I work 7-4 4 days out of the week. All of these things just pile on and adds to stress and creates more tension. And when he does do things to help lhe’s annoyed every single time while he’s doing whatever it is he’s doing. Makes me feel like a burden and like I shouldn’t ask for help Idk. Idk what to do. He also says we barely spend time together , so yesterday after getting the baby to sleep I made some popcorn and grabbed us both a beer and asked him to come watch a movie with me but he rather play his game. I tried 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just feel like I’m stuck in a routine with him and it’s not going to change. Sorry just needed to rant after we argued bc I came to bed crying. 🙃