Lonely; How to cope?

I’ve been feeling really lonely lately. I’m not currently talking to any boys because I’ve had some terrible experiences lately and wanted to take a break from them. I’m this break I wanted to find myself and focus on my desires and nothing else. However I’ve found it harder than what I’ve thought. I find myself either having the urge to text a past fling or to get on tinder and meet more boys. I just wish my desire for them would go away. Any tips?