Anal tips 😬

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Ok so I attempted anal sex today, we were kinda able to do it because his dick was halfway in. We used proper lube (special for anal) and condoms. And I also stimulated myself with my finger first. But, it hurt a lot, I felt no pleasure from it and he was so nervous that he couldn’t get fully hard.

I don’t know what to do for the pain and for him to not be so nervous

Any tips?