What do I even do?

Question

Me and my boyfriend went out last night to a party and he got more fucked up than I did apparently to the point where he woke up just now peeing on our daughters changing pad and on her diapers. I’ve seen him drunk before but never like this. I feel like this is the breaking point for us. I’m only 20 and on my maternity leave. I have support from my parents but I don’t want to be a burden. What would you do in this situation? My heart is breaking and I’m so lost.

Answer

If I was you don’t get drunk while he is as I have been their with my ex 
Every time he got drunk he would pee on any thing and everything and also anyone. I never drank but just as well I never did because he went to pee on our 6 week old baby once and it was a deal breaker for me as it just got worse and worse. But if it’s a one of just talk to him about it .

Answer

You both went out and drank. If this is a one time thing I'd let it go. I feel like you're overreacting a bit if I'm completely honest

Answer

If it's only happened the once, talk to him about not drinking that much again and let it go. Anyone can make a mistake and get sloppy once. I don't see why you'd leave him over it unless it were a regular occurrence.

Answer

I'm all for go ahead and go out and have fun even if parents.
But you both drank? So how did you get home? I hope uber or if you then there was hours between your last drink because gotta be safe.
Anyway if this is the first time talk to him. He was drunk and probably still has some in his system I doubt he would pee on baby stuff on purpose.
If he gets drunk on a daily basis or every weekend tell him to make it every two weeks and to be safe that he has a child to think about. Alcohol addiction is real and so is alcohol poisoning.

Answer

When he's back to him self have a conversation with him about it.

Answer

Is this a every time thing? My SO gets super drunk where I have to babysit him but that’s like once every three years type of thing. We’re going on 9 years. I just record it and show it to him the next day that he’ll cringe at it. I’ve had my moments too. Peed in my mother in laws fountain lol

Answer

Wait til he’s sober, and confront him. If he’s a father, he needs to be a responsible one. Blacking out is not an option. If this occurs frequently, you could take a small video and show it to him and let him know you don’t feel comfortable with him getting in that state of mind. Maybe seeing and hearing about how he acted is embarrassing enough to make him not want to do it again.

Answer

I'm sure he will be horrified at the state he was in.. he may even change from this.. don't give up if he's a good partner and dad.. just work it through together.. obviously if nothing changes then leave.

What do I even do?

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products