Controversy

My husband and I are dual military. He is a Supply Specialist and I am an IT specialist who works in the motorpool. For those who don’t know what a motorpool is, it’s outside with a bunch of trucks and satellites and I have to move around routers and switches and configure them. He works in an office. I work longer hours usually outside whether it’s raining or not. He usually gets off an hour or two before me. He complains to me that I don’t do enough. I always do the laundry and dishes and I clean around but he gets upset when he has to do is own laundry. He usually cooks all of the time but that’s because he complains about my cooking. I have made it clear that I can cook for myself. He says I’m the wife so I’m supposed to pamper. But in my eyes honestly I do what I can after a long day of work. I think that if I’m working longer and harder that it’s not my responsibility to have everything done for him....