Need advice

So I’m in a long distance relationship with this girl. I’m bi (just for reference). I trust her 100% I’ll send her photos of me and even if I’m self conscious she always hypes me up. It’s hard when your in a same sex relationship because she with a her friends on call and she’s like “I love you bb” but not towards me, but towards her friends. I know I shouldn’t get jealous but I do. I feel like she treats me just Like one of her friends. I make an effort to send her paragraphs in the mornings if she had a bad night. And you think I might get something in return, but no. Our relationship isn’t one sided, but I feel like I’m doing more than she is. Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like she’s trying to make me feel loved. And it upsets me, I wanna talk to her about it. But if I do it’ll make her upset because she’s busy a lot and I’ll make her feel Like she isn’t enough for me. And I don’t want that :/ so that’s my dilemma.