So pissed off. Am I wrong?

Question

Our 6 month old has been sick the past couple of days with a rough cold and hasn’t been sleeping well at all, so she’s been super fussy. She’s finally on the mend and sleeping better, so I’ve been pretty hardcore about getting her in bed on time so she can get the rest she needs to get 100% better. 
Last night DH brought me a plate of food (after I’d mentioned I would just heat up leftovers and just cook for the older kids) and said he would watch the baby while I ate. She just started solids so I asked him twice while I ate to feed her dinner. He refused and decided to sort some random piggy banks of coins. 
I get her after I finish eating, intending on feeding her some purées, but noticed that it was her bedtime so decided to start her bedtime routine so she could get a good nights sleep. As I’m putting her to bed, I tell my husband that I was a little frustrated that he didn’t feed her dinner (don’t worry, she got a bedtime bottle of breastmilk) because he wanted to sort coins. 
DH FLIPS the fuck out. He starts yelling at me, calling me lazy and a fatass and a bitch. Then he goes to our bedroom where her bassinet is still set it (it’s become kind of a catch all of stuff I need to go through since she moved to her crib lol) and flips it over. During his screaming he woke LO up and I had to snuggle he back to sleep. 
He tried to tell me I wasn’t allowed to sleep in the bed that we bought recently and I wasn’t allowed in the bedroom. I said no fucking way because our LO sleeps in our room. So he decides to sleep in his car in some random ass parking lot. 
He has the gall to text me today saying I need to apologize. I have no idea what he wants me to apologize for. And he has yet to apologize for what he did. I didn’t even tell at hi when I told hi I was frustrated that he didn’t feed our daughter dinner. I wasn’t even that upset, I was annoyed and told him so. 
I have no idea what to think of this situation. I don’t feel like I’m in the wrong at all, but maybe I am? Just looking for some insight.

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He sounds super immature and petty. I couldn’t even try and reason and be with someone like that. He needs to grow up and help you. Oh and he should be the one to apologize, not you.

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His reaction to the entire situation was uncalled for. I'd be questioning him on why he had such a rage, over something that ultimately isnt a big deal. 
He should have helped follow the routine, but going off track one night isn't a huge deal either. I wouldve been upset over it, too. But the way he reacted when you mentioned it is an absolute no. You are not wrong for being pissed, upset and whatever other feelings you are feeling. You do not owe this man an apology.

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Are you serious! You are not wrong why would he flip out so bad over that and as for you apologising.. 🙄

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If it happened the way you said that was extremely dramatic and EXTREMELY weird behavior. Is there any possibilities that he does drugs? You definitely aren’t wrong and no matter what he should t of responded that way. I think if you feel safe (I’m only saying this because that sounds very explosive and ridiculous), I would ask him what made him so upset and y’all out how he viewed the situation before talking about who owes who an apology. Tell him to you it was a very explosive response that came out of nowhere and it seems that situation isn’t the root of what’s bothering him. Explain both points of view and then take it from there but he needs to know that was extremely wrong of him and you won’t stand with that disrespect, regardless of him being tired or whatever excuse comes of it. No matter what’s going on you guys need to be able to talk things out - even in an argument it should never get physical or disrespectful

So pissed off. Am I wrong?

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